Wednesday, December 05, 2012

House Cleaning Schedule


When I was a stay-at-home Mom, I loved it.  So, I tend to still get many of the newsletters on home & housekeeping. The tips they share are great and can make the difference in your work load, as well as, if you wish to become a stay-at-home Mom.

House Cleaning Schedule
Good house keeping starts with a good cleaning schedule, and there’s nothing like walking into a house that smells as good as it looks. When floors are washed, beds are made and dishes are put away, the family gains a sense of comfort in knowing that their surroundings are under control. Being clean and organized saves you both time and money. When all things are put in proper order you don’t have to spend minutes or hours looking for lost items. And when supplies are carefully organized, you can easily find them instead of replenishing stock. That's where a schedule like this comes in handy!

This schedule focuses on house cleaning. It does not cover meal planning, bill payment or personal hygiene. It is designed to get your house in tip-top shape each week and keep it looking that way.

Tackle one area of your house/day, and before you know it you’ll have it sparkling clean from top to bottom! If you’re starting from scratch, then the first week or two will take up much of your time, because there may be areas that you haven’t been cleaning on regular basis. But once you get a good deep cleaning done, up-keep will be a breeze!


My sister Betty always says, when the dishes and laundry are done a woman is happy, but that happiness dissipates quickly if we don’t make a daily effort to keep up those areas. Dishes and laundry are constantly in use, and therefore we must constantly be on top of those kinds of jobs.

This “Daily Upkeep” section of the schedule covers the cleaning that you’ll need to tend to each and every day.

Make the Beds

It only takes five minutes to make a bed. Five minutes goes a long way to making your family appreciate you. If your children are old enough, ensure that they make their own beds before school. Caring for the house is a great habit for all kids to get into.

Laundry

Depending on the size of your family, you may need to schedule anywhere from one to four loads of laundry/day. Start with two loads each day (Monday-Friday) and decide if you need to increase that number or not.

While the water is running in the machine, wet a light-colored rag and wipe down the washer and dryer if necessary (keep a few on hand in that room). Throw the rag into the load.

Set a timer so you don’t forget to put the second load in. The timer is also necessary for clothes that are drying. Whether they are in an electric dryer or hanging on the line, we want to fold them as soon as possible to prevent wrinkles. And besides that—fresh laundry smells incredible!

Once they are folded, put everything away. Piles of laundry littering the couch only takes away from the hard work you have done.

About line drying: I had a clothes line in my last house that ran from the back door to the back lane. I loved using it in the summer time--felt like I stepped back into the '60s! Since moving to this house a few years back, we haven't put up a clothes line yet. However, I do try to dry sheets and towels and blankets on my deck railing when the weather is nice. It's not the best alternative, but it satisfies my craving for the outdoor smell.

Here are just a few reasons that line-drying is good:

  • We save money on hydro
  • The sun kills germs and therefore the clothes smell so much better
  • Dryers are more apt to shrink your clothing
  • The sun doesn't cause static cling
  • Hanging clothes is good 0ld-fashioned exercise
While I was in Jamaica I noticed that nearly every house had a clothes line. So when I mentioned it to our tourist guide, she told me that her doctor recommended line drying for good health. Makes sense since the sun offers vitamins and kills germs.

If you don't like the crunchy feeling that you get from hanging up towels and jeans, dry them 3/4 of the time on the line, and finish the load in the dryer.

Vinegar in the wash is also a great way to kill odors--even odors as foul as cigarette smoke. Don't worry about your clothes coming out smelling like pickles, the vinegar smell also washes away in the water and gives the clothes a good cleaning.

Wash Your Dishes

Empty your dishwasher every night, or put your hand washed dishes away. This clears space up for the next day’s activities. Keep on top of dishes that don’t fit into the dishwasher and wash them as soon as each one is emptied. Pots, pans, plastic bowls and juice jugs can clutter a sink, and a cluttered sink takes the charm away from any dining experience.

Find a liquid soap with an aroma that’s pleasing. It will make your dishwashing experience a more pleasurable one and your hands will smell great.

Every time you wash the dishes, also take a moment to sweep the kitchen floor.

10-Minute Tidy

In addition to your daily duties, which I will outline below, set your timer for 10 minutes three times/day and tidy things up. You’ll be surprised at how much you can achieve in only 10 minutes time. I like to do this after breakfast, lunch and supper. This step is in addition to laundry, dishes, and shedding your junk, which we’ll get to next.


Shed Your Junk

Again set your timer, but this time it’s only for 10 minutes/day. Tackle any cluttered area that you desire and discard junk. Have one box for “giveaways,” and another for “throwaways.”

(Also see my article "Toss out 25 Things")

While you’re purging, keep this rule in mind: if it isn’t pretty, useful, or sentimental, get it out of the house. As for clothing, if you haven't worn it in the past year, you likely won't wear it again. If you're hanging on to clothing "just in case" you might decide to wear it, chances are you won't. The longer it sits in your closet the less likely you are to ever put it on. Pack it up and give it to someone who will cherish it as much as you did the day you brought it home. Besides--how much clothing do we really need?

Lighten your load by giving away items that you don’t necessarily need. Want—perhaps, but need—no. Having less stuff makes cleaning and organization easier and there’s far less dusting to do!

Incorporate Routines to Your Schedule

Everyone's schedule is different and therefore one routine does not fit all. Choose daily routines that work for you and your family. It could be as simple as listing three cleaning chores for the morning and three more for days end. Don't overwhelm yourself with enthusiasm or you might tire out. Handle some tasks today, and others tomorrow--it will all get done in time.

Start a Journal

It may be helpful to start a home maintenance journal where you can record your routine, keep track of this schedule, grocery lists, plan menus and keep track of important "to-dos." A small three ring binder about the size of a Daytimer works well since the pages are removable. Target carries the cutest little notebooks, and of course I have a few on hand. You can't insert pages, but if you're creative you can always glue a little pocket onto the inside front cover to store coupons and grocery lists. Brown paper kraft paper is the perfect weight for book pockets. Cut out a square, fold the edges under on three sides (about 1/3 inch), apply glue for the three edges and fasten to the inside cover.

Don't Get Sidetracked

One of the best things I've ever purchased was a telephone headset. Mine broke about a year ago, but it's back on the top of my Christmas list for 2010 [update: I got it!]. Phone calls can be so disruptive when you have dishes to wash, and unless you're as talented as my friend Sandra, it's difficult to be juggling both. A hands-free headset is well worth the money if you find that telephone calls are tying you down. I roam the house with mine.

The computer is also a huge distraction for women today. Used to be that soap operas distracted women, but as least they were still able to turn up the volume and move freely through the house to get their cleaning done. Not so with computers. Facebook, Twitter, and Blogger are all things that draw my attention away from my home. I need to be cautious that I'm not too sidetracked when there is house work to be done. Sitting in front of a monitor will not result in a clean house, ladies.


Monday

Clean the bathroom/bathrooms. Wet a cloth and sprinkle soap onto the cloth, wipe down the bathtub, the sink and the counters. I use a hand scrubber to remove tough grime. Use one scrubber for the toilet, and a separate one for the sink, bathtub and floors.

While my sister was working for a professional cleaning company, she picked up an awesome cleaning tip from them. Instead of using a standard cleaning product, my sisters are now using laundry detergent to clean their bathroom sink and tub. Keep a small box of it handy under the sink (but away from the reach of little children) and sprinkle a bit onto a damp cloth. It works great for removing bathtub scum. Since it's much cheaper than the standard chemicals I'm switching too!

Paper towels are my best friend when it comes to the bathroom. After I wipe and scrub the areas with the hand brush, I dry with paper towels that I can discard. I also like to hang on to worn out socks, or undershirts that I cut into pieces and use as disposable cloths. One pair of long underwear goes a long way! Cleaning your bathtub weekly is important as a ring can build up, making it difficult to remove.

Give special attention to the floor. The area behind the toilet is a gathering place for filth, especially if you have little boys. Reach in with a moist hand brush, and wipe dry with paper towels.

Keep the soap and brush under the sink where you can easily touch up areas during the week.

Clean the mirrors with window cleaner until you can hear them laugh. Then use the moist paper towels to wipe down the door handle and light switch.

* See window cleaner recipe below.

Look up. Is there a fan that needs to be cleaned? Check your shower liner. Is it time for a wash?

Don't forget to empty the garbage. Next time you're picking up cleaning supplies, find a box of great smelling fabric softener and throw a sheet into the bathroom garbage to freshen up the scent. It doesn't have to be brand name, it just has to smell good.

Remember, when guests are sitting on your throne, they have nothing better to do than observe what kind of a housekeeper you are.

Tuesday

Spend time in the bedrooms on Tuesdays.

Change bedding, and toss sheets in the wash. Note: if you purchase deep sheets, they won't pop off of the corners as often. If it's nice outside, try hanging your sheets and blankets outside.

Organize clothes, and dust off your dressers. Take a look in your closet to see what you can give away. If it doesn’t fit, or you haven’t worn it in over a year, there is no reason to keep it. Put as much junk away as possible so that all clutter is eliminated.


Keep DVDs, CDs, and jewellry off of the dressers. Keep one or two books on each bed stand and put the others away in a book shelf.

Clean the windows and mirrors, and occasionally wash your drapes. Wipe down window sills, and clean inside the tracking of sliding windows. They say not to clean your windows on a sunny day, and the reason is that they dry too quickly, leaving you with a streaky finish.

Empty space makes for a comfortable bedroom so do your best to shed items when it comes to the most restful place in your home.

Wednesday

This is kitchen day. The kitchen is the hub of the family, so in addition to the daily maintenance you do, deep cleaning this room is necessary once a week.

Organize your pantry and discard old food. Repackage items that have torn torn or open boxes, and consider storing them in Tupperware to eliminate the threat of insects.

Empty and wipe out your refrigerator. Thursday is shopping day and you’ll need all of the space you can get. If you leave this chore to doing once monthly, you’ll find it’s far more difficult to get done. Constant maintenance is the key to keeping a refrigerator clean and functional.

Fill a glass bowl full of water and add about 1/4 cup of vinegar to it. Place the bowl in the microwave for about three minutes. This should be long enough to steam the inside of the microwave. Now wiping it down is a snap! (My sister says she skips the bowl and just puts a wet cloth in--even easier!)

Wash your counters and disinfect them. Note: vinegar is a great disinfectant, and since it's edible it's a safe alternative to use on kitchen surfaces.

A little vanilla on vinyl flooring hides pet odors, but beware of possible stains.

Have a coffee maker to rinse? Powdered automatic dish detergent is the best for removing coffee stains whether they are in the pot or on your counter. Just a little bit will do. It also works well to clean a stainless steel sink.

Wipe down your appliances and your cupboards.

Empty your garbage. And before you put the next bag in, throw about five bags into the bottom of the can. This makes changing the garbage every day an even easier task.

Organize one or two drawers. Here's the thing--did you realize that most women have the same odds and ends in their "junk drawer?" Yes, we do. Ask one of your friends, and you'll see. And if you took a minute to analyze the junk you'd also see that this junk can be organized into 5-6 categories. Grab a handful of large Ziploc bags and slip items of similarity into each:
  • Pens, pencils, erasers, markers
  • Scotch tapes, masking tape electrical tape
  • Candles, birthday candles, matches, lighters
  • String, twine, shoelaces
  • Keys, padlocks
  • Etc.

It's a lot easier to pull out a bag when you need masking tape then to sift through a drawer of junk looking for it.

It's also a good idea to designate a shoe box for warranties, instruction booklets, and important receipts. It only takes five minutes to find a shoe box today, but you'll save yourself all kinds of time and frustration in the future.

Once per month clean the inside of your stove.

Use the hose of the vacuum to suck up crumbs when you're cleaning the toaster, and also use the vacuum hose to clean crumbs from the cutlery drawer. (Yes--we all seem to get crumbs in there!)

Thursday

This is grocery day. Plan your meals for a week and write down the supplies you will need. Check to ensure that you have an adequate stock of light bulbs, cleaning supplies, toiletries, and the like.

If you have collected any coupons during the week, put them in your purse.
Call your husband to see if there is anything that he needs from the store before heading out.

If you have errands to run, this is a good day to do them. Save time and gas money by grouping trips together, and try to schedule errands for this day as well .

Friday

Vacuum all carpeted areas and clean all other floors. Pull the couches away from the walls and get behind there. Every second week, remove the cushions and vacuum the inside of the couch on this day.

* Also see carpet cleaning below.

Grab a dusting rag or a bounce sheet and dust any surfaces that you haven’t touched yet this week. Clean any windows and mirrors that haven’t been cleaned yet this week. See any scuff marks on your walls? Try using toothpaste to remove them.

Several decades ago, my sister Betty decided to jump on her bed with a pencil in hand. When mom discovered the mess she had made, Betty was sent to her room with an old toothbrush and toothpaste. It all came off.

Saturday

Spend time with your family working outside. This is a great day to mow the lawn or shovel the walk, depending on the time of year. In summer, transfer your plants, in winter hang Christmas lights. Check your front door. Does the welcome mat need cleaning? Does your front steps need a shovel or sweeping? Consider what you want done, and use this day to do it.

Grab a garbage bag and clean out your car. Vacuuming and cleaning the interior should be done 2-3 times/year, but let’s stick with home maintenance here.

Take one day/month to clean out the garage. You may ask your husband to help you if it’s too large a job to take on yourself. If he agrees, spend the time cleaning with him.

Sunday

Take time to enjoy a day of rest with the family.

by The Time Warped Wife

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

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3. Your ceremony must be performed by November 1, 2013.
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Visit www.BlessingsAllAround.com  for ceremony options. 

Wednesday, September 12, 2012

NEW WEDDING TREND: MORNING AFTER AND BOUDOIR PHOTOS




PHOTO CREDIT: MICHELLE JONNE

Looking for a way to add a little more spice to your wedding festivities? Join the growing number of newlyweds who are steaming up their pre and post nuptials with sexy photo shoots. Give him a revealing photo of you nicely framed, and accentuating your positives, or how about showcasing the newlywed glow in a photo shoot set the day after the deal has been sealed.

Morning after and Boudoir photos are quickly becoming the hottest new wedding trend. These photo shoots give the couples a “time out” from all the stressful events of wedding planning, and captures memories not often reflected in the ordinary wedding album.
PHOTO CREDIT: MELISSA SQUIRES

Boudoir photos have been gaining popularity since 2009. The term boudoir means bedroom in French, hence these photos are often taken in ladies bedroom, dressing room or other intimate space. Boudoir photos tend to accentuate your positives and little to no clothing is worn.

Typically given as a pre-marital gift to your future husband, a boudoir photo captures you in an intimate light for his eyes only.
This is a gift that keeps on giving as he can look at it and be reminded just why he married you. Studios that shoot boudoir sessions can be found in every urban city and can run you $150 - $450.

Morning after photos consist of the freshly married couple in sexy, intimate poses together. Michelle Jonne, a New Jersey based photographer came up with the idea and said she was inspired by ad campaigns by Emporio Armani featuring David and Victoria Beckham.
The photos are meant to capture the glow of the early stages of marriage. The shoots are scheduled one day to a couple of weeks after the wedding and can take place in the couple’s home or even the hotel room where the honeymoon took place. Many couples frame the favorite and place it over there bed, others choose to post the pictures on Face Book, or to create a private photo album to be shared between them.

PHOTO CREDIT: MICHELLE JONNE
The average cost for morning after shoot is around $650. It’s still a growing trend and has taken a strong hold on the east coast. However, we are slowly seeing other studios in the west take up these sexy sessions. Any good photographer should be easily able to capture the essence of you and your husband’s love. The key is finding someone that can make you guys comfortable and snap those priceless moments.

There has been a little opposition to the photos on recent blogs, with people accusing couples of being “vain” and seeking attention. Some have even gone so far to label it as porn! I believe like any other photo session, you are seizing a moment in time, that you are documenting the history of your love story.

What do you think, are the racy photos too much? Let us know what you think in the comments section.

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Afrocentric Wedding Traditions

From jumping the broom to tasting the elements -- we've got seven great ways to help you add some culture to your big day.

1. Knocking on the Door

Since marriage in African culture is considered the official joining of two families, a large emphasis is placed on getting family permissions and blessings before the wedding. In Ghana, the groom requests permission through the custom of "knocking on the door." Bearing gifts, he visits his potential in-laws accompanied by his own family. If his "knock" is accepted, the families celebrate and wedding planning begins. Or, simply plan an outing (like a brunch or dinner date) to bring both families together before the wedding and begin forming family bonds.

2. Jumping the Broom

This tradition most likely originated with an African ritual in which a broom is used to demonstrate that all past problems have been swept away. During slave days, African-Americans were forbidden to marry and live together, so jumping over a broom was a formal and public declaration of the couple's commitment. Today, it has become very popular for African-American couples to follow suit at the conclusion of their wedding ceremony. The broom, often handmade and beautifully decorated, can be displayed in the couple's home after the wedding. Check with local cultural institutions for broom makers and suppliers.

3. Crossing Sticks

In a lesser-known tradition that also dates back to the slavery era, African-American couples demonstrated their commitment by crossing tall wooden sticks. By crossing the sticks, which represent the power and life force within trees, the couple expresses a wish for a strong and grounded beginning. If you decide to incorporate this tradition, choose large branches from both of your families' homes or from a place meaningful to you as a couple.

4. Libation Ceremony

Many African-American couples incorporate a libation ceremony into their weddings as a way to honor their African ancestors. Holy water, or alcohol, is poured onto the ground in each of the cardinal directions as prayers are recited to the ancestral spirits, and names of those that have recently passed are called out. The libation ceremony can also be used as an opportunity to honor the elders in a family, asking them to pass on their wisdom and guidance.

5. Tying the Knot

In some African tribes, the bride and groom have their wrists tied together with cloth or braided grass to represent their marriage. To symbolize your own unity, have your officiant or a close friend tie your wrists together with a piece of kente cloth or a strand of cowrie shells (symbols of fertility and prosperity), while affirming your commitment.

6. Tasting the Four Elements

In a ritual adapted from a Yoruba tradition, the bride and groom taste four flavors that represent different emotions within a relationship. The four flavors typically used are sour (lemon), bitter (vinegar), hot (cayenne), and sweet (honey). By tasting each of the flavors, the couple symbolically demonstrates that they will be able to get through the hard times in life, and, in the end, enjoy the sweetness of marriage.

7. Kola Nuts

Kola nuts play an important role in African weddings. The nut, which is used for medicinal purposes in Africa, represents the couple's (and their families') willingness to always help heal each other. In Nigeria, the ceremony is not complete until a kola nut is shared between the couple and their parents. Among African Muslims the nut is also a symbol of fertility, and is exchanged with family members during the engagement celebration. Many African-American couples incorporate the sharing of a kola nut into their ceremonies, and then keep the nut in their home afterwards as a reminder to always work at healing any problems they encounter.


Read more: Ceremony: 7 Afrocentric TraditionsTheKnot.com - http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-planning/wedding-ceremony/articles/7-afrocentric-wedding-ceremony-traditions.aspx#ixzz21fWvASst

Monday, June 04, 2012

What's Your Wedding Style?


    Classic. Quirky. Chapel. Beach.

    Will your wedding be contemporary, classic, cosmopolitan or quirky? Find out now! Take this quiz by clicking on your answers. Discover your dream wedding style, then learn ways to express it through colors, fonts, décor and more.


Saturday, April 14, 2012

2012 Wedding Trends : D.I.Y. Weddings


BY SOCIAL BUTTERFLY

Who says planning a wedding has to be expensive? Eliminating third party vendors in wedding planning is quickly becoming a new trend. 

DIY weddings are a hot trend in 2012, partly because they are low in cost. Planning the wedding and hand making most of the decorations leaves room in the budget for - a more luxurious honeymoon, a new home down payment or a new car. There are cons to a DIY wedding however. 

By doing everything yourself you may get overwhelmed. This can be dealt with by enlisting dedicated friends as well as your fiance, to help out with the craft projects. The key is creating a timeline and a checklist, to keep you on track. Try to have most things on your checklist done two weeks before the wedding. This will reduce your stress the day of the wedding.

Sound like an idea you can work with?  Let’s get started!

INVITATIONS
There are many pre–made invitations on the market yet sometimes it is hard to find to match your theme or unique color scheme. Creating your own invitations allow you the freedom to their many wedding invitations kits that start around $20 per pack that allow you to self print your information. 

                       
There are also sites such as ETSY or kaboodle that offer handmade invitations at affordable prices.

Creating your own invitations allows you to mix and match bringing your own uniqueness to not only your invitations but your place cards as well!

THE VENUE

The DIY wedding  has endless choices as far as venues. Many communities in the U.S have beautiful parks where you could have a garden style setting usually for minimal fees. What about one of your relatives lavish back yards! It will be your imagination that sets the ambiance, which is critical to any themed wedding. Decorating the space with your handmade ornaments will set the mood just right. Try using paper to create various designs, such as butterflies, dragonflies or birds, or use lighting such as candles and lanterns, also you can use an array of local grown, in season flowers to give your venue that magical flair you always dreamed of. The venue itself could be all the decoration you need as in this picture below.

  



DRESSES

Having you and your bridesmaids dresses handmade is authentic and budget friendly. If you happen to be good at sewing and cutting patterns you have just added more pennies to the piggy bank. Or maybe you aunt or grandmother could make the dresses, how many women today can say that their sweet grandmother made their wedding gown? If dress design is not your strong suit (its definitely not mine) check out WEDDING DRESS CREATOR,  a site that allows you to design your dress then print it out or save to a flash drive to take with you to a seamstress of your choice.You will love this site, the graphics are great, and it's free. What do you think about my creation?'


FLOWERS

The Internet will be your best friend when planning your DIY nuptials. This holds especially true when it comes to planning the floral aspects of your wedding. Websites on how to organize a bouquet to wholesale flower vendors can all be found using the World Wide Web. Many wholesalers will send you samples so that you may begin experimenting with your centerpieces, and bouquets. Ideally your wedding flowers will be delivered two days before your wedding so your time in which you have to prepare all your floral arrangements will be short. Using the sample flowers will hopefully set your floral decor in stone, so when the actual wedding flowers arrive you could use photos to arrange the pieces. Also you can experiment which tend to be inexpensive and could give you a general since of where you are going. DIY floral arrangements can be as beautiful as your imagination and adds more pizazz than the traditional rose bouquet.


FOOD

How many times have we had dry chicken or cold vegetables at wedding? The DIY wedding food gives you the chance to show off you and your family's cooking style. Preparing the food yourself can be tasking, however, it will all be worth it when you see your guest mouth watering and the compliments coming in. Having a summer wedding on a beautiful patio or back yard? This sound like a perfect opportunity for a barbecue! Even with a traditional sit down dinner you can elect simple and delectable entrees to woo the crowd. The main thing is satisfying your guest who took time out their schedule and probably has not eaten in hours. Out of all the areas you will put your hard work into to make your special day sparkle, what everybody remembers the most was how good the food and cocktails were!

CAKE
Among the top trends in previous years that continue this year is the cupcake wedding cake! This works perfectly for the DIY wedding planner. Depending on the size of your wedding party you may have to make anywhere from 100-500 cupcakes! There is so much flexibility when choosing cupcakes, from colors, to design, to flavor, you can mix and match your cupcakes. Having a cupcake display also alleviates someone having to cut each guest a piece of cake and for some reason people tend to eat their whole cupcake versus a slice. There are so many decorating ideas for the wedding cupcake on the market, one of my favorites are the decorative gift boxes that allow your guest to travel home with their cupcake safely in tow. Cupcake tiers are readily available at your local bakery or online. Cupcake are generally easier to transport than traditional wedding cakes, which will alleviate another headache of your cake looking slightly titled.

Overall the process of planning a DIY wedding can be stressful, the key is time management. You should start by writing a checklist. There are many DIY wedding planners on the market to keep you organized. I suggest you purchase one immediately. Then, you can develop your time line and put your plan into action. DIY weddings work best when you have two or three dedicated people to help you get things done. So choose your bridesmaids wisely, good luck!

Thursday, March 08, 2012

TOP 5 WEDDING THEMES FOR 2012

BY SOCIALBUTTERFLY

                                                
It’s that time of the year again!  As the sun warms with its golden rays and the flowers begin to bloom, everything in nature is reborn. It is during this time that love is in the air. It is also the time that wedding invitations begin to grace our mailboxes, with their beautiful designs and colors. As we decide who our dates will be or what outfits we are going to wear,   many brides are still tackling the intricacies of wedding planning.

The traditional wedding season in the U.S. starts in April and usually wraps up by the end of October. If you are getting married this year, you are either well into the planning stages or clueless as the day is long, as to what direction you would like your wedding to go in. It all begins with a theme. Setting your theme gives you the foundation in which to build on. Once set, you can choose your colors, venue, flowers, and dresses accordingly., Your end goal -- every single aspect of your wedding was threaded together to fit your chosen theme.

BLESSINGS ALL AROUND www.blessingsallaround will show you what new and exciting ideas are available for this year’s bride, no matter if you’re an old fashioned kind of girl or a Martha Stewart protégé. Join us weekly as we present different themes and feature the items that go into making each of them come together. We will discuss everything from dress styles to venues which are critical for bringing your theme to life.

So make sure you join us over the next few weeks as we cover the following 5 trendiest wedding themes of wedding season 2012.

1.     GREEN WEDDINGS
2.     VICTORIAN STYLE WEDDINGS                                     
3.     DIY (DO IT YOURSELF)  
4.     COLORED THEMED WEDDINGS
5.     RUSTIC/VINTAGE STYLE WEDDINGS 


Friday, March 02, 2012

Always The Bridesmaid, Never the Bride

BY SOCIALBUTTERFLY

How exciting, one of your best girlfriends has just called to share the exciting news that she is newly engaged and wants to enlist you as one of her lovely bridesmaids! You’re ecstatic for her, but can help thinking, "When is it going to be my turn?” 

Many women know this feeling all too well. She shares
in the joy of yet another friend, relative, or co-workers pending nuptials, with no hope insight for herself.  Then comes the agony, I mean the ecstasy, of following her all around town as she plans for her big day. You will be constantly bombarded with e-mails and texts messages, about food tastings, and dress fittings so on and so forth.

 It doesn’t have to be all bad. Remember, when life hands you lemons -  make lemonade! Here are 5 tips to help you get through this process a little smoother and with some joy.

  1. Look At It As Preparation For Your Big Day - No matter how it feels right now, your day will come. Use this time to make mental notes or create a journal of the things you experience in preparing for the current bride-to-be wedding, to guide you when creating your own. You can use this time to discover various, venues, food, and themes you may or may not like. Having this information at the start of your own wedding planning could save you time and money.
  2. Free Lunch Dates - Sometimes since your friend will feel guilty about consuming your weekends and free time, she will tempt you with a free lunch or perhaps a drink or two. This will satisfy most women I know, turning a "maybe" into "what time should I meet you" in five seconds flat.
  3. It's All About Attitude - What goes around comes around, as the old saying goes. Nobody wants to be around a sour puss, so perk up! Be genuinely excited for the bride to-be., Get involved. Encourage her, laugh with her, be honest with her. One day it will be your turn and if you have Negative Nancy in your bridal party, your girl’s day out wedding planning can quickly become doomsday! Just think how you would feel if it was your wedding. Not a great feeling huh? So smile, and be merry remember attitudes are contagious so let yours is delightful and gracious.
  4. Create Memories - When it's all said and done, do you want to look back and have regretted wasting an opportunity to create memories? We are a sum total of our experiences, so let's make some good ones while we can. When you look back on this wedding planning experience, you will realize that you have never laughed so hard or cried so many tears of happiness and joy. Like seeing the bride cry as she realizes she has found the perfect dress, or calming her down just before the ceremony as only you could. These experiences will bond the two of you for life, deepening the friendship you share. After all, it's why she chose you for this in the first place. 
  5.   You May Meet Mr. Right - A wedding brings family, friends, and co-workers together. It is a chance for everyone to mingle and for those who have not previously met, to get together... After all, you will be looking spectacular in your new dress, great hair and flawless make-up. When you look good, you feel good. So use that positive energy! Remember, you determine your own happiness.

This could be the best of times or the worst of times depending on your attitude. If you still can't find it in yourself to be joyful and participate, then its better you decline.